like yes harrowhark was definitely off the wall bonkers for the self lobotomy but let’s not pretend palamedes sextus wouldn’t have done the exact same thing. my guy blew himself up bc he knew the second cam found out how much danger they were in she would’ve fallen on the sword for him. he was sorrier to leave her alone than he was to die
The handshake meme with Harrow and Palamedes: I have a normal relationship with my cavalier and go to reasonable lengths on their behalf.