about blackrom: its best described like, someone has all these traits and mannerisms that just really piss you off, you hate them. but they also have some admirable traits that you love them for. and it's frustrating that you lowkey love someone you hate so much. and the relationship is based around a mutual hatred, but also mutual respect. to isolate your kismesis from their friends, matesprit, etc. or to inflict possible deadly violence on them is abusive and sadistic-- not blackrom.