forgotten hs fact: contrary to popular belief, damara did NOT "become" angry and violent, she was like that before rufioh even started cheating. source: openbound 3 in a convo between rufioh and meenah

“The Witch of Time was not always the party’s 8iggest trou8lemaker. […] Once she was as meek as can 8e. Hailing from the eastern provinces, she migrated across the seas and settled near the forest concealing Rufioh’s guild. The two of them 8ecame quite fond of each other, and shared many interests! He secretly 8egan seeing someone else, 8elieving she knew nothing. 8ut she always suspected his infidelity, and over time grew quite distraught. 8ut her sadness never quite turned to rage and malevolence. Not until you… involved yourself.”