been thinkin bout knights/pages and i think a better verb would be burden,knights burden themselves with their aspect and pages burden others with their aspect

That’s a way to see it, but it’s merely a part of what they actually do, after all Pages can definitely grow to be powerful beacons of their Aspect, thus kinda invalidating the burden. I’ve heard ‘Wield’ too, but I kind of like the duality of Give and Steal.