A video on YouTube made me feel like utter shit for being a Bard of Doom. Am I really gonna end up hurting everyone around me friend and foe?

That’s dumb, not only are they generalizing every God Tier of that kind down to a single thing, they’re also forgetting the ‘Destroying Doom’ part of the equation which straight up serves as the opposite of hurting others. Saving others from certain Doom. In fact, given the Bards tend to be a bit obsessive about their convictions, if your Friends are people you want to aid and help, a Bard of Doom would fight with all they have to prevent anything bad from happening to them. Sure they can invite Destruction of stuff in general but that doesn’t mean they can’t also Destroy Destruction in itself.