so lands and their quests kinda seem like they're focused on taking a player out of their comfort zone, making them grow and learn. what about a neurodivergent person who can't have a comfort zone in the normal world? would the land still be designed to push them even further, or would it still focus on what the player needs, which in that case would probably be respite?

I mean it doesn’t even necessarily have to be out of their comfort zone, some people do have that but, I would say Nepeta has a pretty nice Land, and the Alpha Kids have Lands relating to Noble Gases and Tombs, rather than thematic to themselves. So it’s hard to tell what kind of Land that would be.