Where would you put someone on the active/passive scale who *wants* to put others first and most often does, but doing so often makes them neglect themself, leaving them needing to take long periods of recovery on their own before being able to interact with others again? I feel like I'm somewhere in the middle :C

That’s just a kind Active, maybe Active and influenced by being a Prospit Dreamer or maybe a Witch or Mage. Although it could still fit some passive ones like the Rogue.