2021-11-18 16:15:54 ¶ ● ⬀ ⬈

marinamun:

> whinesaboutrp:

> > do you think all the “no bottoms! tops only! if you connect you sign your name in blood that you’re not a bottom!” people know what a bottom actually is, or do they think it just means somebody who doesn’t bother to participate in sex. like I’m sorry other people made you think all bottom rpers are bad, but come on. seriously.

> > and even if they do know that, do you think they know how stupid that part of their post looks

> > edited to add: I’m glad other people are just as annoyed by this as me

> unfortunately that one group of bottoms ruined it for all of us 😔 no fr i feel like i have to stress so heavily that “i promise i’m not the lazy kind please”. i want to believe most of them are requesting that bc of genuine preference for what they want to rp tho

yeah, I considered this too, but I feel the way they word it is just so aggro. there’s got to be ways to word “I personally prefer to play bottoms and am only seeking switches or tops” that’s less like …. that.

like I get it. I prefer to play bottoms too! but I’m not about to go around being like IF YOU CONNECT TO ME AND YOU ARE A BOTTOM YOU HAVE COMMITTED A WAR CRIME