“how could I possibly confine such a loving and good character to one gender”
perhaps by realizing that being loving doesn’t change that the character is a lesbian. perhaps by realizing that phrase is homophobic because it’s implying that if gay people were really loving they’d want to bone more than one gender! gotta fucking love this “bi/pansexuality is more progressive and Good than homosexuality” meme, I am so fucking exhausted by it