I think whenever people are rude to Jon, they assume he’s forgiven them every time just because he’s not rude back (usually?) and still cares about them.

But the thing is, he would probably struggle not to care about people. It doesn’t mean he always forgives them. I doubt he really forgave Daisy, from the conversation with Basira in Season 5 about Daisy nearly killing him. And it definitely doesn’t mean he forgets about what they did wrong. He doesn’t hold a grudge against them for it, but I don’t think Jon forgets much of anything. I mean, he remembered those statements by number in MAG 33. (Also, the Eye.)