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candyskiez:

> candyskiez:

> > I think jonathan sims has deeply complicated feelings on love and what counts as love. Hit post

> I think Jon doesn’t know what people really mean by it. If there’s some specific Thing he’s not feeling. If there’s supposed to be a thing where he just magically knows ah yes. I love this person. Be it platonic or romantic. I think he has trouble truly connecting with someone enough to form any sort of friendship. I think he doesn’t know how he’d tell if he loved someone. If he has a lot of positive feelings about them and feels safe around them, does that means he loves them? He calls it that for simplicity. Do other people just Know? Ah yes, I love them. Is there something missing? If he actually gets closer to people, will he magically Know, yes. I love them. Or will he always just be putting words where they don’t quite fit?

> He cares so much it hurts. That’s love, right? It still doesn’t feel like it fits. Not properly.

> I don’t know if I’d call him a loveless aro. But I also don’t know if I Wouldn’t. I think he has some feelings. And I think he needs to talk to an aromantic person Stat. I think it would fix him.