2025-05-02 14:26:41 ¶ ● ⬈

valtsv:

> “enthusiastic consent” “dubcon” “noncon” ???con where we’re both so neurotic and strange about vulnerability and emotional and physical expression that it’d take a crack team of philosophers to figure out whether anything about what we did together was consensual or even semiotically definable as sex

2025-05-28 18:11:11 ¶ ● ⬀ ⬈

greelin:

> “is the wanting to be killed like a sexual thing for you” No. but also yes