Basically je incest should be constantly toeing the line where technically elias isn’t doing anything but going as close as he possibly can to doing it without actually initiating himself. Kind of hovering over that line as if he’s saying to Jon “I’m not going to make you. But if you want it, I’ll make it good for you.” It is so so dubious. Technically Jons the one initiating but Elias should be gentlyyyy prodding him closer and closer to that line and welcome him over it far too eagerly.