Basically having a Romantic Relationship is uncomfortable for jon , too many expectations he’s unsure how to meet, of what is and isn’t appropriate levels of affection. Having a dynamic with like. Clearly defined expectations or just completely free of the idea of A Romantic Relationship is very helpful for him. Yk. This is why having his everyday dynamic with elias also acting like a father/son or master/pet or creator/creation even outside of sex or supernatural reduces stress. Just. Do you get it.
