Tbh an ace Jon interpretation that i’m Very Fond Of is that Jon has zero interest in having sex himself but he really really wants to Observe it happening to other people. Like his Ideal Sexual Encounter is one where he stands in a corner and watches as other people fuck (ideally without acknowledging his presence). And he’s maybe kind of horny but he’s not actually getting off because this isn’t about that.
He’s never actually Asked anyone to fulfill this desire out of awkwardness and a vague sense that other people would find the idea Strange. He’s tried porn but it’s too scripted and fake. He’s curious about sex, the intimacy and vulnerability and the reactions.
I think Sasha would share a very similar sentiment, and Elias would be more than happy to put on a show for him, and Gerry (in the incest au) wouldn’t have any problem indulging her brother’s curiosity <3
