See like the thing is Jon would use a Dom/Sub relationship as self harm especially with his mindset in later seasons that he’s a monster. Which is why Elias is on the top of the list he would choose, because he would not curb that intent at all. Also season three Tim would work too for this idea. Peter is also uniquely suited here too, and he’d probably feed off it, meal and a show you see?
Just Jon trying to punish himself and using this framework to do so.
Literally anyone who’s ever known about jons trauma and does scenes with him probably has Realizations every session and is just sitting there wondering if it’d be polite to ask. Except elias elias is exploiting that shit. He’s playing mind games he’s seeing the trauma and digging in sooo deep. “You try so hard, Jon. Don’t you deserve a father that wants you back?” As he takes him ‘against his will.’ “You’re so brave. I know it hurts. I’ll make it better. You’re such a good boy, letting me do this to you.” He is looking at his emotional trauma and exploiting it happily. He is going “I don’t know how they can hate you so much when you’re this perfect for me, Jon. They don’t know you like I do. What a sweet thing.” He should do severe psychological damage to him while giving him everything he’s ever wanted. It should be everything he’s ever wanted to hear and it should hurt so so bad. Okay. He should feel so hollow and so wanted by the end. Wake up with him working in the next room. Hgnfhh.