Listen I love weirdly sexually perverted jonelias as much as the next person but you know what??? I really really love them in a father/son dynamic. Like, elias would be a shit parent don’t get me wrong, but he’s so arrogant and self-centred that it would undoubtedly cause jon to be become insecure and reflect some of that attitude back towards other people. Jon trying desperately hard to please elias and never really getting the support or confidence or acceptance that he needs from it. Elias going from calm almost to the point of gentleness to hard and unreadable at the drop of a hat. Jon thinking that it was probably his fault. Elias feeling guilty over it but reasoning that jon can deal with it on his own. Neither of them comfortable in their roles, hating each other but also loving each other anyway. Yeah, might just be going insane I dunno.