one thing that drives me crazy about fanon perception of Jonah is that people ignore how passive he truly is. he is the Watcher through and through! he observes and watches before he acts. his control issues stem from his own fear of mortality and being a victim. he wants to be in control to ensure his own safety not for the love of the game! which is why he isn’t a Web avatar! he also doesn’t have a short temper nor is he violent! Gertrude and Leitner are exceptions because they explicitly threatened his safety. but they are exceptions! not the rule!