2025-08-07 2:39:21 ¶ ● ⬀ ⬈

kandrakelsier:

> psychotic-gerard:

> > psychotic-gerard:

> > > does the 69 button have a name or are we all calling it the 69 button.

> > this guy.

2025-08-09 2:50:50 ¶ ● ⬈

ceasarslegion:

> In my experience as a third culture kid who travels a lot the best indicator that you as a non-x is appreciating x culture is if the locals actively invite you to participate in it with them

> Yes, you are allowed to buy those handmade Inuit winter clothes if an Inuk is literally selling them to you. They would not be offering you a price point if they didnt want you to buy and wear them. And you might discover that theyre the best winter clothes youve ever worn because of COURSE they would be if theyve kept this culture warm in harsh winters for thousands of years.

> Yes, you are allowed to join those Cambodians in that local holiday theyre celebrating during your visit if they literally invited you to it. They would not have invited you if they didnt want you to participate. And in the process you might learn a lot about a culture you never wouldve interacted with and you can all have a laugh together about your clumsy but genuine attempts at getting your footwork right in one of their traditional dances.

> Yes, you are also allowed to ask if you can participate in something from the local culture you are visiting. Sometimes you will get “sorry, thats a closed practice” but in my experience most of the time you’ll get “of course, let me show you how to do this!” And in my experience people tend to appreciate when others make an active effort in sharing their culture and wont stone you to death if youre clumsy about it while youre learning. I guarantee that the local children doing all of this for the first time too make the same mistakes you do and they can tell if youre being disrespectful or genuine.

> So much “cultural appropriation” discourse really starts to sound like “you cant participate or visit any other cultures if youre from a Colonial Culture and have to stay in your little box and never relate to other people”