Being emotionally attached to Jon as a character is weird. On one hand, his character only works if he’s flawed. How you as a listener assess the morality of his choices is a key part of the story, and trying to smooth over everything questionable would ruin a lot of what makes him so good as a protagonist.
But then there’s moments where you look at how some characters in the story (and a certain percentage of the fandom) talk about him and part of you is like “actually Jon Archivist Sims has never done anything wrong in his life, I say he should have eaten more brains.’