also not to pile on the negativity but every time i see a jm post where it’s like, m*rtin Fondly Tolerating jon in infodump mode, i just like……….did we listen to the same podcast??? m*rtin’s “shut up jon” energy is only outmatched by melanie’s, this is the man who makes jon go sit in a corner or literally covers his ears when jon has to statement-eat, m*rtin isn’t a Softe Tolerant Boyfriend he’s the guy you break up with because he never listens to you