sometimes i think about the fact that when this first started jon was actively trying to tell martin shit about what was happening and how that slowly started to dwindle because martin repeatedly told him that he didn’t want to know/that what jon could do made him uncomfortable and how martin now not being told stuff is somehow jon’s fault. like you can’t repeatedly tell someone not to do something and then get mad at them when they internalise it and don’t do the thing that’s not how it fucking works
