How else is one supposed to interpret Georgie saying, verbatim, “If this really is a second chance, please try to take it. But I don’t think that it is.” There is no other way to take it but that she’s saying him coming back is not a second chance, meaning he’s back because of sinister reasons, and if he were human he should’ve and would’ve stayed dead. But because he didn’t, and because she thinks him staying dead would’ve been a sign he wasn’t a monster and made the right choice to not become one, she’s saying, “I wish you’d died.” I cannot interpret it as anything else by her saying that.
Likewise, how else am I supposed to interpret Basira replying, “We’ll talk later,” after Jon asks if she’s disappointed he’s alive. It’s a yes or no question, there’s nothing to discuss. There’s no caveats that would make it any less her saying, “Yes, I am disappointed you’re alive,” without her explicitly saying, “No, I’m glad you survived.” Which she doesn’t.
Jon was basically viewed as dangerous and as needing to be pacified with halfhearted maybes by them. Then we have Melanie who immediately and proactively attacks him because of that danger he presents. Then we have Martin who says to him, without meaning, that if Jon died again he was going to make sure he stayed dead. Literally every single person in his life tells him he wasn’t wanted alive. That he made the wrong decision in coming back.
There is no other interpretation of the first few interactions Jon has in season four. I refuse.