Okokok I'm the Martin Go To Therapy anon and YES you are so right you would tell him he's morally wrong and he'd be like stop gaslighting me.. stop... I have childhood trauma don't gaslight me :(

I guess I was trying to articulate if he went to therapy and could actually learn something useful? But he wouldn't, he'd cycle through therapists until he found someone to tell him he's not doing anything wrong.

and then he’d go back to being a godawful boyfriend 💔💔