Martin Blackwood the kinda guy to sit down with you and talk about your problems and when you're done he would say "well, heh, it's kind of your own fault isn't it? I mean you should've tried harder than that" or "Yeah, i get you, but people have it worse yknow? You should just stop thinking about it."

sounds like someone said this to you and you’re projecting but tbh like i get it i also blame Martin for everything in my life live your truth xoxo