2025-10-12 19:41:46 ¶ ● ⬈

kairos-polaris:

> my dislike of jmart is entirely a me problem and it's deeply rooted in me not understanding how can you love someone you don't really. click with? how can you love someone without liking them as who they are, now in this moment, not the person they used to be (that you didn't even know!!!). I know there are couple irl who have nothing in common with and they can be happy but I personally just don't understand that. and the basic example is that they don't even find each other funny. Basira thinks Jon is funny. and martin doesn't

> and also I don't like it when the narrative wants you to believe one of characters is morally superior and it doesn't matter whether it's true or not. moral superiority brings condescension and there is little I hate more than that