i find most fandom interpretations of jon’s asexuality really intolerable not because i don’t think he’s asexual or that i don’t think he was written in the show as convincingly uninterested in and disconnected from sex (not hard to do in a show that generally does not concern itself with the personal sex lives of its characters explicitly on-page) but because the idea of jon taking time to introspectively analyze the minutia of his (lack of) sexuality on tumblr and its linked fansite wikias for long enough to pick his favorite 2010s pride flag designed by a fourteen year old fandom discourse blogger is like. let’s pick a nice word. it is silly.