Elias and D, F, J?
D = Dirty Secret
Hmmmm. I think in general he prefers to keep his sex life and preferences Private. He’s trying to come off as a boring administrator and I suspect he doesn’t want a lot of attention on himself + doesn’t see any reason why anyone should have that information about him if they’re not sleeping with him. As for the things he likes to specifically hide, I imagine he has a Thing about not being in control. Cnc where he’s the victim, being dommed, etc. It’s a kink that’s very wrapped up in his own fears and need to be in control, and the idea of having that taken away is both exciting and terrifying. Also breathplay. I have no real evidence but I Know that man is into being choked. He’d never say shit about either of those kinks though. Being that vulnerable and that trusting of another person… it’s not something he’s at all comfortable with.
F = Favourite Position
Not sure I have too many thoughts about this one tbh. I think in general he prefers his partners facing him so he can more easily see their facial expressions and physical reactions. Prefers to be on top whether he’s topping or bottoming. Also enjoys being between Jon’s legs I think, but I may be biased (I want him to eat Jon out and I also want Jon to piss on him).
J = Jack Off
He doesn’t always have the time or patience for it. When he is in the mood, he prefers to take his time. Make it nice for himself. Likes to settle in, take things slow (at least at first), tease himself. Find something enjoyable to get off to. I think in general he prefers to Watch other people. While he’s certainly capable of drawing on either memory or imagination, there’s something particularly satisfying about the knowledge that he’s intruding on a private moment, especially if whoever he’s spying on starts feeling Watched and anxious. I imagine he finds Jon especially enjoyable to observe (Jon gets both fearful and more aroused at the thought that someone is Seeing him, and his fantasies are so… interesting). In general he prefers to see what people do on their own, but sometimes if he’s curious or in the mood for something specific he’ll try slipping his target a particular idea or fantasy to see what they do with it (and enjoy the results).