I hate it so much when somebody is actually being unreasonable and mean cuz I spend like several weeks double checking to make sure I am not just being petty cuz my imposter syndrome is just goin “But what IF I am the problem?? I should fix that then–?? I wanna be a good person after all”

The amount of times I double check with friends just like “heyyy Idk if I am getting this wrong but somebody said __ to me? Is my discomfort justified Idk man?”